So, you're not a playboy, right?

Male-male relationships can be difficult to navigate
There are several deep and informative discussions in the advice forum on relationships. If you're working on a relationship, you should definitely browse those threads. Often we humans find that working on relationships means that we have to work on ourselves. The best forum for self work is the discussion forum on personal development. Lots of wisdom there. Check it out.

Hoping to meet Mr. Right?
Try the regional personals. There are boards for the six major regions of Japan. If you're in Korea, Taiwan, elsewhere in Asia, Europe, N. America or anywhere outside Japan, check the Outside Japan boards.

Or try the Special interests boards if you want to meet someone near a military base, or meet a couple, or a mature guy, or a black guy, or a chubby guy, or a guy under 30, and so on.

If you're in Tokyo, use the Kanto: Love/relationship board!